David
G. Nelson, MS, LPC
404-295-0073
Dave Nelson offers counseling, training and intervention services to
families of young children with challenges in relating and communicating,
including children with autistic spectrum disorders. His philosophy is based in
large part on the work of noted child development expert Dr. Stanley Greenspan,
whose recent books include Building
Healthy Minds and The Child With Special Needs.
Our Approach
Reciprocal social interaction--two-way communication--is central to development, including the areas of language, play skills, peer play, and cognitive skills. Effective reciprocal social interaction relies on a set of skills that most of us take for granted: looking at others, communicating nonverbally, initiating and responding to play overtures, getting someone's attention before communicating, and responding to questions and comments with related answers. These are all elements of what Dr. Stanley Greenspan calls "opening and closing circles of communication." This social connection enables us to learn from others, to develop relationships, and to become participating members of a family and community.
Children with developmental challenges often process information in ways that are different from typically developing children. Among other things, these children can have highly selective, repetitive, or unusual interests, as well as a narrow range of motivation. In a relationship-based approach, the adult works to establish social engagement--to rapidly open and close many circles of communication--by using these interests as a starting point. The adult builds upon these natural motivations to develop engagement, relatedness, and intentional two-way communication.
Stanley Greenspan's recent research shows that a child-centered, floor-time approach can improve attention and engagement in toddlers, reduce irritability, improve self-regulation, and foster a child's ability to move up the developmental ladder. This approach translates into a therapy that is respectful and nonjudgmental, and at the same time is comprehensive, intense, and effective. You can also find additional information about relationship-based intervention on the Internet at www.mindspring.com/~dgn.
"[The goal is to] mobilize and support the developmental processes . . . that are so vital to healthy development--sharing attention, self regulation, engaging with the child, two-way communication, emotional ideas, and emotional thinking.
"[Y]ou already possess the abilities needed to help your child. The key is knowing how to harness them."
--Dr. Stanley Greenspan
Guiding Principles
Background
Dave Nelson
A former teacher of business communication, Dave is a parent of an
adolescent boy who was diagnosed with pervasive developmental disorder (PDD) at
age three. Based on his experience using a developmental,
individual-difference, relationship-based approach with his own son, he changed
careers to work with children facing developmental challenges and their
families. Dave has worked with families for over eight years helping them to
learn floor-time, to put together effective home therapy programs, and to
integrate their children into appropriate school programs. Dave has an M.S.
degree in Professional Counseling from Georgia State University's College of
Education. He is licensed as a Professional
Counselor (LPC) by the state of
Services