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It must have been a strong teaching as hats and similar head coverings as spoken of in 1Cor. 11 have only recently in the last 30 years or so become obsolete, except among old order Mennonites, Amish and similar groups.
I know this is a controversial issue, especially these days, but I would like to know how you interpret the Scriptures on the head covering. I do not want to be part of any legalistic move, and yet it is there in black and white. And I would not want to be contentious.
Paul probably wrote to members of the Corinthian Church while he was in Ephesus. He wrote them about a string of problems in the church.
"My brothers, some from Chloe's household have informed me that there are quarrels among you."1 Corinthians 1:11
That was just the tip of the iceberg. The Corinthians had many problems with doctrine and practice. They were divided against each other. They were proud. They sued each other. They tolerated sexual immorality within the church. Some were sick or had died because they abused the Lord's Supper. They misused spiritual gifts. They were confused about the resurrection of the dead and about Christ's return for His Church. Then there's the issue of women covering their heads during prayer and prophesying.
"I praise you for remembering me in everything and for holding to the teachings, just as I passed them on to you. Now I want you to realize that the head of every man is Christ and the head of the woman is man, and the head of Christ is God. Every man who prays or prophesies with his head covered dishonors his head. And every woman who prays or prophesies with her head uncovered dishonors her head--it is just as though her head were shaved. If a woman does not cover her head, she should have her hair cut off; and if it is a disgrace for a woman to have her hair cut or shaved off, she should cover her head. A man ought not to cover his head, since he is the image and glory of God; but the woman is the glory of man. For man did not come from woman, but woman from man; neither was man created for woman, but woman for man. For this reason, and because of the angels, the woman ought to have a sign of authority on her head. In the Lord, however, woman is not independent of man, nor is man independent of woman. For as woman came from man, so also man is born of woman. But everything comes from God. Judge for yourselves: Is it proper for a woman to pray to God with her head uncovered? Does not the very nature of things teach you that if a man has long hair, it is a disgrace to him, but if a woman has long hair, it is her glory? For long hair is given to her as a covering. If anyone wants to be contentious about this, we have no other practice--nor do the churches of God."1 Corinthians 11:2-16
Headship and coverings are the focus of Paul's writing. This section follows Paul's beautiful explanation of how believers should express their freedom.
"Everything is permissible"--but not everything is beneficial. 'Everything is permissible'--but not everything is constructive. Nobody should seek his own good, but the good of others...Do not cause anyone to stumble, whether Jews, Greeks or the church of God--even as I try to please everybody in every way. For I am not seeking my own good but the good of many, so that they may be saved. Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ."1 Corinthians 10:23-24, 32 - 11:1
Paul begins with an explanation of headship. God is the Head of Christ. Christ is the Head of man. Man is the head of woman. This is not chauvinistic. Paul never teaches male dominance of the female. Paul teaches God's Love and Grace for human beings. He teaches us how to demonstrate God's Love for through love toward each other. Headship is important for order and the flow of Grace in the Spiritual world. Paul doesn't begin teaching about "coverings" until he presents clearly the order and flow of God's Grace from the Father through the Son through the man to the woman. Women should be the recipient of God's full Grace as demonstrated through the words and actions of Jesus Christ and man. Anything less than that does not come from God.
Next, Paul states that "every man who prays or prophesies with his head covered dishonors his head." Remember that the Head of every man is Christ. A man who prays or prophesies with his head "covered" dishonors Christ. Now that's important! We men need to understand about head coverings so we don't dishonor the One we love.
The Greek reads: "pas aneir proseuchomenos he propheteuon kata kephales echon kataischunei ten kephalen autou" . Key words for our understanding are kata kephales echon .
The first word is kata . It means "down over." The second word is kephales . It means "his head." The third word is echon . It means "having anything." It is wrong for a man to have anything down over his head. The meaning to Greeks in the first century was of a man having anything hanging down from his head like a veil. A Christian man reflects the glory of Christ. It would be shameful for him to wear a veil concealing his head.
"A man ought not to cover his head, since he is the image and glory of God."1 Corinthians 11:7
The opposite was true of women.
"And every woman who prays or prophesies with her head uncovered dishonors her head--it is just as though her head were shaved."1 Corinthians 11:5
The word "uncovered" is akatakalupto . It means "unveiled." It would be shameful for a woman to not wear a veil over her head. She would dishonor her husband.
The veil was a sign of authority on the head of a woman. It showed she had the authority to pray and prophesy because it demonstrated her acknowledgement of the headship of her husband.
Here is a quote from Professor Fred Wight's book on "Manners and Customs of Bible Lands" about women wearing veils in the Middle East.
"The veil was the distinctive female wearing apparel. All females, with the exception of maidservants and women in a low condition of life, wore a veil. They would usually never lay it aside, except when they were in the presence of servants, or on rare occasions. This custom has prevailed among the Eastern women down to the modern era. When traveling, women may throw the veil over the back part of their head, but if they see a man approaching, they place it back in its original position...When women are at home they do not speak to a guest without being veiled and in the presence of maids. They do not enter the guest's chamber, but rather, standing at the door, they make it known to the servant what is wanted...It is well to remember that prostitutes went unveiled. Today, as in olden times, virgins and married women may be seen wearing veils in Bible lands.""Manners and Customs of Bible Lands," Fred Wight, Moody Press, 1953
The act of veiling and unveiling in public is still strong in many countries today. It is shameful for a woman to go into public unveiled. Paul said that a Christian woman praying in public without her veil over her head was like having her hair cut off. That was a sign of a harlot or adulteress in the Greek world of Paul's time. It was certainly not the image a Christian woman should have.
"If a woman does not cover her head, she should have her hair cut off; and if it is a disgrace for a woman to have her hair cut or shaved off, she should cover her head (katakaluptestho - let her be veiled)."1 Corinthians 11:6
"Judge for yourselves: Is it proper for a woman to pray to God with her head uncovered? Does not the very nature of things teach you that if a man has long hair, it is a disgrace to him, but that if a woman has long hair, it is for her glory? For long hair is given to her as a covering (peribolaiou - a veil)."1 Corinthians 11:13-15
God gives women long hair as a natural veil on their heads. It is her glory. A man should not wear long hair "since he is the image and glory of God; but the woman is the glory of man." (1 Corinthians 11:7)
Paul made it clear to the Corinthians that he would not tolerate dissension or argument concerning this issue.
"If anyone wants to be contentious about this, we have no other practice--nor do the churches of God."1 Corinthians 11:16
Paul was dealing with something very clearly part of the religious and social customs of the Jewish and Greek worlds. The Law of Moses did not allow men to wear women's clothing or women to wear men's clothing: "for the Lord your God detests anyone who does this." (Deuteronomy 22:5)
What does this have to do with Christians today? Should Christian women wear veils during church? Maybe they should in some parts of the world where a woman not wearing a veil in public would be a disgrace. But what about America, the United Kingdom, Australia and other countries where women do not wear veils in social situations? Should women have another way of physically demonstrating their honor towards their husbands in public?
Paul always dealt with personal issues from God's standard. That standard held true in the particular dispensation of the prophet and in the social setting of the day. Slavey, for instance, was a social issue during Paul's ministry. He gave specific instructions to Christian slaves and owners of slaves about how to treat each other as brothers. Paul would have preferred that slave owners freed their slaves, but he dealt with life as it was at that time, pointing them toward the way of Christ. The Word of God was the standard for Christianity during centuries of slavery after Paul, which included America until the 1860s. Christian slaves and slave owners should have obeyed God's Word then as well. Now that slavery is illegal and a thing of the past in our country, Paul's writings about slavery do not have the same social influence. However, in other parts of the world where slavery still exists, Christian slaves and owners are under Paul's directives about how to treat each other.
The same is true about veils. The social setting of dress in the time of Paul included women wearing veils and men not wearing veils. Men wore turbans to protect their head from the sun, much like we might wear a hat to protect us from weather today. However, they did not veil their face from public. Women did. Today, in America for instance, women do not normally wear veils unless they are in a time of mourning. You have to visit Eastern countries now to find social situations where women wear veils in public. Christian men and women in those countries should obey Paul's teaching about wearing veils.
The issues of veils and slavery in America are different now than they were in Paul's time, but the principles are the same. They deal with love and respect. "Now I want you to realize that the head of every man is Christ, and the head of the woman is man, and the head of Christ is God." Each of us belongs to another in a relationship of love and respect. Jesus Christ loves and respects His Father. God the Father loves and respects His Son. Christian husbands love and respect Christ. Christian wives love and respect their husbands.
Love and respect for another also leads to other relationships. Christ is the Head of Christian men. Christian men love and respect Christ, their Head. How does that relationship influence a Christian husband toward his wife?
"Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. In this way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. he who loves his wife loves himself. After all, no one ever hated his own body, but he feeds and cares for it, just as Christ does the church--for we are members of his body. 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.' This is a profound mystery--but I am talking about Christ and the church. However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband."Ephesians 5:25-33
How does this relationship of love and respect influence a Christian wife toward her husband?
"Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything."Ephesians 5:22-24
American Christians today do not have veiling and unveiling as social issues, but we still have the deeper principle of love and respect for Christ and for one another. I recommend you do what you think is right within your social situation, but remember the deeper principle so the outer action "always" reflects the inner faith.
Did Christ indeed die for every man, woman and child that ever lived? If He did, why are some or even most of them in hell? Are we to conclude that Christ's work was "unfinished" and we have the concluding ingredient to effect salvation? Is it Christ plus ______?
This is Truth. It is part of the Truth for the Kingdom Dispensation that Jesus explained to Nicodemus, "a member of the Jewish ruling concil" and a member of the Pharisees. Nicodemus later revealed himself as a believer in Christ when he went with Joseph of Arimathea to ask Pilate for the crucified body of Christ so they could bury Him. (John 19:38-42)
God "so loved the world" that He sent Jesus to die for the sins of the human race. Anyone who believed in Christ would not perish but have eternal life. God sent Jesus to save the world. However, anyone who did not believe in Christ was already condemned.
The Apostle Paul taught that every person was born into a state of spiritual death and distance from God. Everyone was on a path that would lead to personal disaster. "All of us also lived among them at one time, gratifying the cravings of our sinful nature and following its desires and thoughts. Like the rest, we were by nature objects of wrath." (Ephesians 2:3) Fortunately for us, God wanted to save us. That's why He sent Jesus to die for our sins. "But because of his great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions--it is by grace you have been saved." (Ephesians 2:4-5) Paul taught that "those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the likeness of his son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers. And those he predestined, he also called; those, he called, he also justified; those he justified, he also glorified." (Romans 8:29-30)
I am a believer in the "Soverign Grace" of God. I believe God is "sovereign" in everything He does. He is the All-Powerful God. His Love is Sovereign. His Grace is Sovereign. His Mercy is Sovereign. His Compassion is Sovereign. His Justice is Sovereign.
We learn a great deal about the Sovereignty of God's Grace from Paul's letter to the Romans. Chapters 9 - 11 deal with that Sovereignty in wonderful detail. We must keep in mind the context of God's dealing with Israel and how He blessed Gentiles because of Israel's unbelief. Here are some key thoughts about God's Sovereignty from those chapters.
"I will have mercy on whom I have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I have compassion.' It does not, therefore, depend on man's desire or effort, but on God's mercy...Therefore God has mercy on whom he wants to have mercy, and he hardens whom he wants to harden."Romans 9:15-16,18
"Shall what is formed say to him who formed it, 'Why did you make me like this?' Does not the potter have the right to make out of the same lump of clay some pottery for noble purposes and some for common use? What if God, choosing to show his wrath and make his power known, bore with great patience the objects of his wrath--prepared for destruction? What if he did this to make the riches of his glory known to the objects of his mercy, whom he prepared in advance for glory--even us, whom he also called; not only from the Jews but also from the Gentiles?"Romans 9:20-24
"What Israel sought so earnestly it did not obtain, but the elect did. The others were hardened, as it is written: 'God gave them a spirit of stupor, eyes so that they could not see and ears so they could not hear, to this very day.' And David says: 'May their table become a snare and a trap, a stumbling block and a retribution for them. May their eyes be darkened so they cannot see, and their backs be bent forever.'"Romans 11:7-10
"For God has bound all men over to disobedience so that he may have mercy on them all."Romans 11:32
Paul ends this section of teaching with a doxology that sums up the Sovereignty of God.
"Oh, the depth of the riches of the wisdom and knowledge of God! How unsearchable his judgments, and his paths beyond tracing out! Who has known the mind of the Lord? Or who has been his counselor? Who has ever given to God, that God should repay him? For from him and through him and to him are all things. To him be the glory forever! Amen."Romans 11:33-36
In the middle of Paul's declaration of God's Sovereignty, Paul explains who is saved and how they are saved. I believe that is the heart of your question. Did Christ die for all people or only a select number of people?
"The word is near you; it is in your mouth and in your hert,' that is, the word of faith we are proclaiming: That if you confess with your mouth, 'Jesus is Lord,' and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you confess and are saved. As the Scripture says, 'Anyone who trusts in him will never be put to shame.' For there is no difference between Jew and Gentile--the same Lord is Lord of all and richly blesses all who call on him, for, 'Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.' How, then, can they call on the one they have not believed in? And how can they believe in the one of whom they have not heard? And how can they hear without someone preaching to them? And how can they preach unless they are sent? As it is written, 'How beautiful are the feet of those who bring good news!'""Romans 10:8-15
Paul wrote the Ephesians that God chose them for a special purpose.
"For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight. In love he predestined us to be adopted as his sons through Jesus Christ, in accordance with his pleasure and will--to the praise of his glorious grace, which he has freely given us in the One he loves."Ephesians 1:4-6
Paul taught that Christians are called, chosen, foreknown, predestined, called, justified and glorified. Wow! We are so blessed. What does God want us to do with our blessing? Spend our lives telling others about it! That's what pleases God.
"So we make it our goal to please him, whether we are at home in the body or away from it. For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, that each one may receive what is due him for the things done while in the body, whether good or bad. Since, then, we know what it is to fear the Lord, we try to persuade men. What we are is plain to God, and I hope it is also plain to your conscience. We are not trying to commend ourselves to you again, but are giving you an opportunity to take pride in us, so that you can answer those who take pride in what is seen rather than in what is in the heart. If we are out of our mind, it is for the sake of God; if we are in our right mind, it is for you. For Christ's love compels us, because we are convinced that one died for all, and therefore all died. And he died for all, that those who live should no longer live for themselves but for him who died for them and was raised again. So from now on we regard no one from a worldly point of view. Though we once regarded Christ in this way, we do so no longer. Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come! All this is from God, who reconciled us to himself through Christ and gave us the ministry of reconciliation: that God was reconciling the world to himself in Christ, not counting men's sins against them. And he has committed to us the message of reconciliation. We are therefore Christ's ambassadors, as though God were making his appeal through us. We implore you on Christ's behalf: Be reconciled to God. God made him who had no sin to be sin for us, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God. As God's fellow workers we urge you not to receive God's grace in vain. For he says, 'In the time of my favor I heard you, and in the day of salvation I helped you.' I tell you, now is the time of God's favor, now is the day of salvation."2 Corinthians 5:9 - 6:2
God is Sovereign. He is Love. He is Grace. He sent His Son, Jesus Christ, to die for all people. Those who are chosen, foreknown and predestined are also called. We don't know who those people are. It's not for us to know. God's Love and Grace "compel" us to tell everyone about Christ's sacrifice for sin and His free offer of salvation to all who believe. We are convinced that "one died for all, and therefore all died." We believe that Jesus "died for all." We know that all who believe will be saved. That is what's important here. Sovereign Grace teaches us that God reconciled us to Himself. Sovereign Grace teaches us that God gave us the ministry of reconciliation. Sovereign Grace teaches us that God is reconciling the world to Himself in Christ, "not counting men's sins against them." Soverign Grace teaches us that God has made us Christ's ambassadors, "as though God were making his appeal through us." That is what a belief in the Sovereign Grace of God will lead us to believe and practice. God will save His own. None that He has chosen will be lost. We get to share in His ministry by finding them and preaching to them "the unsearchable riches of Christ, and to make plain to everyone the administration of this mystery, which for ages past was kept hidden in God, who created all things." (Ephesians 3:8-9)
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