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Faith in Christ


The Spirit's Tugging


Adam's Choice


Age of Accountability

  • QUESTION: I have heard many say that there is an age of accountability but have never seen anyone give biblical text to verfy it. I believe most people who hold to the age of accountability do so because they do not want to say that children go to hell. The struggle I see is that we are all born with the sin nature of Adam, and therefore we are condemned already. Please tell me how one can justify children not going to hell without violating proper biblical interpretation.

  • ANSWER: The answer is in the Grace of God. After you do a complete study of children in the Bible, you will be filled with the knowledge of how much God loves children. Look at how the Lord Jesus treated children while He ministered on Earth. He loved them, called them to His side, spoke kindly to them, and blessed them. God's actions toward small children are Kind and Merciful.

    The "Age of Accountability" is a human term. I've heard Christians preach that the "Age" is anywhere from two to 21-years old. I've heard sermons and read books and articles on the importance of the "Age" to when a child should be prompted to receive Christ as their Savior.

    I don't believe declaring an "Age of Accountability" is necessary or even wise. If it was important, God would have inspired Paul to write parents and churches about it. He didn't. It's not important. What is important is loving children and serving their physical, spiritual, emotional, mental and social needs. Christian parents and teachers don't need to worry about whether a young child would go to heaven or hell if they died. Our love leads us to share the Most Precious Friend a child or adult can ever have: Jesus Christ. We share His Love with children because it is the natural outflowing of a "loved heart" to do that.

    I led both my sons to Christ when they were interested in doing that. It was the natural step within a Christian family. Jesus was part of our everyday conversation. I recommend that to all Christian parents.

    As for children who do not come from Christian homes, don't worry about them. Plant the seed of Christ's Love in their minds. You and others will water the seed with your Love. God will give the increase and cause the seed to grow. The "Age" of a child is not an issue. God knew each of us from before the creation of the world.


Did Paul disobey the Lord?

  • QUESTION: In view of the fact that Paul baptized the Corinthians in Acts 18:8, Lydia and her household in Acts 16:15 and the jailer and his household in Acts 16:33, how do you interpret 1 Corinthians 1:17? From these verses its obvious to me that Paul preached and practiced water baptism, therefore it cannot mean that Christ forbad or told Paul not to baptise anyone. If that is what it means, Paul disobeyed the Lord over and over again when he baptised. I am interested in what you have to say about this verse.

  • ANSWER: The context of the verses you mentioned demonstrates Paul's "obedience" to the Lord. He did what he knew to be true at that time. Paul was the instrument God used to "transition" from one dispensation to another (Kingdom to Grace). Paul was baptized because he was saved during the Kingdom Dispensation. God used Paul to slowly make a change in the way He administered His Household of Faith. Paul continued to baptize as he had been taught during the early years of his ministry. He stopped baptizing in the middle years of his ministry because God showed him what changes to make. Paul made it clear in 1 Corinthians that Christ did not send him to baptize, "but to preach the gospel." The Gospel of the Kingdom included baptism because it was part of the heritage of Israel and Law. Jesus commanded His disciples to baptize in water. Christ also commanded Paul not to baptize in water. God determines the Rules of each Faith Household and one of the Rules of the Household of Grace is no water baptism. The Gospel of Grace has One Baptism and that is the Spirit Baptism of believers into the Body of Christ. That is not the baptism of the Kingdom Dispensation. Their heritage was an earthly Kingdom and King. Our heritage is being co-heirs with Christ in his Body and Heavenly blessings.


Intercessory Prayer

  • QUESTION: I would like to ask you if you could explain about intercessory prayer. I was reading in a book called "Don't just stand there, pray something" and the author said not to get discouraged if someone you are praying for gets worse during that time because sometimes things get worse before they get better ... Could you maybe give me some more insight on this and if there are any biblical references to this idea of things may get worse before they get better?

  • ANSWER: Prayer is central to the relationship believers have with God. Here are the earliest mentions of prayer in the Bible. Notice the important issues of relationship.

    The first mention of prayer is when God spoke to Abimelech king of Gerar. Abimelech had taken Sarah, Abraham's wife, to be one of his wives.

    "Now return the man's wife, for he is a prophet and he will pray for you and you will live. But if you do not return her, you may be sure that you and all yours will die."

    Genesis 20:7-8

    The issue was sin and how God would deal with the sinner. God told the sinner that His prophet would "pray" for him and he would live. What was the outcome? Abimelech returned Sarah to Abraham untouched. He gave Abraham and Sarah sheep, cattle, slaves and silver to cover the offense. "Then Abraham prayed to God, and God healed Abimelech, his wife and his slave girls so they could have children again, for the Lord had closed up every womb in Abimelech's household because of Abraham's wife Sarah." (Genesis 20:17) The Bible is filled with examples of God's people praying for the unsaved.

    The next mention of prayer is when Abraham sent one of his servants back to Nahor to find a wife for Isaac. The servant went to Nahor and prayed.

    "Then he prayed, 'O Lord, God of my master Abraham, give me success today, and show kindness to my master Abraham'...Before he had finished praying, Rebekah came out with her jar on her shoulder."

    Genesis 24:12, 15

    Praying for the success of someone you love is certainly a correct thing to do. The history of God's people is filled with instances of prayer for good things to happen to members of God's family.

    The next mention of prayer is an example of believers asking for what seems impossible in their lives. Issac married Rebekah. She was barren. No medical procedures were known at that time to cause a barren woman to become fertile. Issac asked God for a miracle in their lives.

    "Isaac prayed to the Lord on behalf of his wife, because she was barren. The Lord answered his prayer, and his wife Rebekah became pregnant."

    Genesis 25:21

    These are also examples of Intercessory Prayer. The Bible has hundreds of examples of believers praying for that which was important to them, others and God. Prayer is the primary way we communicate with God. Prayer is how we tell Him what we think, what we feel, what we need, what we want. Prayer is how we intercede with God on the behalf of others. God hears our prayers and answers. His answer may be "no" or "not now." It may be "wait." It may be "yes." It may be "I have a better way." The point is, God hears and He responds in the best way. God is God. He knows best. His timing in doing what's best is perfect.

    Some of the greatest examples of Intercessory Prayer are found in the Prophets. Abraham was a prophet of God and he interceded for many. Moses was a prophet of God and interceded time and again for Israel. Joshua, Samuel, Elijah, Elisha, David, Solomon, Ezra, Nehemiah, Job, Isiah, Jeremiah, Ezekiel, Daniel, Hosea, Joel, Amos, Jonah, Micah, Habakkuk, Zephaniah, Haggai, Zechariah, and Malachi are examples of believers interceding with God for the good of others. Their Intercessory Prayers were usually about Israel, God's Chosen People. The prayers were often made during dark times in the life of Israel. Things often went bad for Israel because of their continual sinning against God. Even in the darkest moments of the life of Israel, God always held out the Hope of Eternal Peace and Prosperity. The long-term answer to the Intercessory Prayers of the Prophets is a resounding YES for Israel!

    The Greatest Example of Intercessory Prayer is the Lord Jesus Christ.

    "I pray for them. I am not praying for the world, but for those you have given me, for they are yours."

    John 17:9

    This is a phenomenal insight to Intercessory Prayer. We pray for other believers because they "belong to God!" What a precious responsibility and opportunity we have to pray for God's Children of Grace. We are asking God to do what's best for those who belong to Him. There is no better prayer than that. God will certainly Protect and Preserve those who are His.

    "I have given them your word and the world has hated them, for they are not of the world any more than I am of the world. My prayer is not that you take them out of the world but that you protect them from the evil one. They are not of the world, even as I am not of it. "

    John 17:14-16

    Jesus did not ask God to make things easy for believers. He didn't ask God to remove them from trouble, pain, or persecution. He asked God to protect them from Satan. Christians will suffer in this world because we belong to the One Who is from Another World. Christ is from Heaven. He is Pure and Holy. We are also Pure and Holy in Christ. That is opposite of this world, which is impure and unholy. Christ has set us apart for Holy Service. The world hates us for that. Christians will suffer persecution. Christians will suffer misunderstanding. Christians will suffer because of Christ.

    "My prayer is not for them alone. I pray also for those who will believe in me through their message, that all of them may be one, Father, just as you are in me and I am in you. May they also be in us so that the world may believe that you have sent me. I have given them the glory that you gave me, that they may be one as we are one: I in them and you in me. May they be brought to complete unity to let the world know that you sent me and have loved them even as you have loved me."

    John 17:20-23

    Intercessory Prayer also includes those who are not yet believers. We pray for friends, loved ones, classmates, workmates, neighbors, strangers and even enemies. We want the world to know that God sent Jesus to the world with Love and Forgiveness in His Outstretched Arms. We want all people to be saved and to know God's Love and the Glory of His Son.

    "Righteous Father, though the world does not know you, I know you, and they know that you have sent me. I have made you known to them, and will continue to make you known in order that the love you have for me may be in them and that I myself may be in them."

    John 17:25-26

    Things may get better for someone after you pray for them. Things may get worse. Things may stay the same. The important thing to know is that God Loves you and God Loves the person for whom you are praying. Don't worry about the short-term effects of your prayer. What's important is the end result. The old saying "It is darkest before dawn" is often true in life. Night comes before day, but day will come. Pray for your friend. Stay with your friend. God knows best and will do what's best at the perfect time.


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